Most guys are clueless when it comes to getting sex with Facebook hotties. They fuck up, they fuck up again – and again. And they keep making the exact same mistakes over and over again – and, as a result, they rarely, if ever, end up on a date with a girl whom they’ve met on Facebook. Since you’re reading this – I’m guessing you’re one of them. I’ll give you 3 simple FB dating tips that will help you score more dates (and sex) with ease. Follow these tips, and you’ll already be on your way to more success with the Facebook ladies.
1. Create “conversation opportunity”.
Women will rarely approach you first, not just in real life, but on Facebook as well. Some guys have it better, others don’t. This does not mean that you should ALWAYS approach first – no, you shouldn’t, actually. What you should do is behave in a way that will make it very, very easy for women that are interested in you to start an interaction. Basically – a girl that’s interested in you WILL give you a certain sign (and you should learn what these signs are, what they mean and how to use them to your dating advantage). BUT – a girl can not, and will not give you a sign if it is too hard for her to start it.
That’s why you should do your best to make it EASY for women to show you if they’re interested. Create “conversation opportunities” so that you’ll easily spot the women that like you. And, well – with them, it’s easy – all you have to do is NOT fuck up. Okay – so,” how do I create these opportunities?” – I can already hear some of you asking. Simply – DO SOMETHING. You need to have RELEVANT activity on your Facebook Profile that can get her to approach you. The best part is that this is like FISHING (just on Facebook, and not for fish, but women). You basically throw in a HOOK and wait till some girl bites. Or even better – the FISH that you WANT to bite. (yes, that’s possible as well). Try to find out MORE about this girl (assuming that she has already accepted your Friends Request) – then post relevant (similar) content on your Facebook profile. Music, pictures where you’re doing something, status updates, quotes – whatever. Start a conversation, and wait till she joins in the discussion. Then just wait for the fish to bite. They will.
2. Boost your attractiveness level.
Look at yourself as a product. Hot girls are RICH girls (in this metaphor). They can CHOOSE between different products, many different products. They basically have a TON of products (guys) to choose from. What you have to do is make yourself UNIQUE and BETTER than your competition. That’s not THAT hard – as there are MORE hot girls out there than “good products.” Basically – make your product AMAZING and more women hot women will want to buy you. Find out what your “market wants.”. Research it a bit. Here are a few sure tips.
a) be more popular
A guy that has a lot of friends has them for a REASON (he’s a cool guy). Don’t have 1000 fake friends etc. But naturally – be more social, go OUT into the real life and make friends, connections, interact with people. When you are more influential socially and have more contacts, you are more powerful, and therefore, more attractive. Women SCAN your profile – and they immediately see how other people regard you.
b) have a stronger identity/personality
You are what you do most of the time. So do something worthwhile. If you are “just a dude” – you’re not so attractive. BUILD a stronger identity or personality. Have SOMETHING that makes you stand out (in a good way). It can be anything. A sense of humor, education, career, looking good, having a sense of style, whatever. Find out what works for you – and become the BEST at that. You can test the strength of your identity/personality by finding out how people DESCRIBE you when somebody else talks about you. Think about that one, and improve your image.
c) Get more women.
The more the merrier. Really – if MORE women interact on your Facebook profile (Like your shit, leave comments, post on your Wall etc.) other women (potential future girlfriends) SEE that. And if they see that other HOT girls like what you say, and laugh at your bullshit – they’ll treat you ACCORDINGLY. So get some traffic to your profile, but don’t be OVER-active on Facebook. It’s important that a woman can see that you are NOT on Facebook every single fucking day. Get a life.
3. Take initiative (the right way)
Some of you guys are just WAITING for a girl to fall from the sky. Waiting won’t help much, and it certainly won’t get you laid. Patience is very important – BUT you HAVE to take initiative. Give it a try. I’m not saying you should ATTACK women all day long and send 200 Friends Requests, for God’s sake don’t do that. It’s just that you need BALANCE. Some guys take ZERO initiative and some guys are HARASSING women on Facebook, boring the shit out of them and bragging and other crap – they just end up getting ignored or rejected.
How do you take initiative the right way? Start a conversation with girls that you KNOW have at least some interest in you. Basically – if a girl “pokes” you, Likes something, comments, sends you a message etc. It DOES NOT mean that she already wants to have sex with you! BUT – it’s a SIGN that she MIGHT want to suck your dick. So why not give it a try? Instead of attacking every single hot girl on Facebook – approach the one’s that you like and you BELIEVE might be interested. If she didn’t give you a sign yet and you like her – TEST her interest level.
You can find out more about testing her interest level and other Facebook Sex tips in my guide by clicking here. Or go jerk off to their pictures while somebody else has hot sex with them. It’s your choice. You know how they say… If you don’t score the goals, somebody else will.
You can meet more women on Facebook if you stop making stupid mistakes that are currently getting you REJECTED or (even worse) completely ignored. Most guys don’t end up having sex with girls that they meet through Facebook – because they never even get their Friends Request accepted, let alone get her to “Like” something.
The first step of the process to meet more girls is getting your requests accepted. How do you do that? Simply – add girls that you have more mutual friends with, write her a short hello message (that will get her interested) and have a more appealing Facebook Profile. The first impression is the most important – if you fuck up that one, you probably won’t get a second one. Adding random girls from different cities and countries won’t help. Find a girl from your neighborhood – maybe a girl you’ve been seeing around (so that she recognizes you). Then write her something like “Hey, I’m Joe, the funny stalker guy neighbor from our supermarket you came up as a “People you may know” so I thought I’d add you cheers.” And that’s it. She’ll HAVE to accept you. Just be as NON-THREATENING as possible. She doesn’t want a guy that will send her 500 messages and that she’ll have to “black list” on her Facebook Chat. The less of a threat you look, the more likely she’ll accept you. A whole book can be written on this (and I did, you can read more here) – but I won’t write about getting your request accepted now.
Once you’re in – just focus on NOT fucking up. Be different from all the other guys. Differentiate yourself in a positive way. Try to think like she thinks. If you know how to build a more attractive Facebook Profile – you’ll get her interested in finding out more about you. And that’s the second and most important step.
Most guys fuck up by trying to pick up a girl (in a too obvious “hitting on you” kind of way). DO NOT HIT ON GIRLS ON FACEBOOK – it’s OBVIOUS and it’s lame. Instead – create a SHOW – so that the whole thing looks as if “it just happened.” Or, even better, it appears as if SHE seduced you. It’s possible to do that. Most guys never end up meeting girls from Facebook because they never get through this “stage” of getting her interested – they just immediately start going for it by commenting the shit out of her profile, “like-ing” everything they can – and making it VERY obvious that they are DESPERATE for having sex with her. That’s NOT how you get sex through Facebook. Don’t be another chump.
You’ll get MORE sex through Facebook by making it your goal to get to know a girl better and have fun – than if you focus on getting her into bed. Sure – you can not pick up every girl, and don’t expect to. But you could be having A LOT more sex and meeting a lot more girls if you were just doing the right thing. It’s a step by step process.
Girls that are interested in you WILL give you a SIGN that they are interested (after your initial interaction with the girl). You have to know exactly what this sign is and how to recognize it. Learning “Facebook body-language” is essential to meeting more girls from Facebook. Some basic clear signs that she’s interested is when she sends you a Friends Request first, or a message – or she initiates Chat often, or “Likes” something that you do. The important thing is that you recognize which sign means what and WHEN to move forward on your way to the bedroom. If you go too fast – you’ll scare her away. If you go too slow – she’ll might end up loosing interest. Learning to interpret her signals will be KEY to mastering Facebook Seduction.
Let’s look at 3 simple things that most guys are doing – that is TOTALLY fucking up their chances of getting sex through Facebook. If you’re doing any of the following things – Stop. And you’ll immediately increase your chances of getting laid by 377%. Or more
Biggest Facebook Dating mistake #1:
You are FAKING IT. And women know it. Yes, my friend, you are TRYING to be cooler than you are, or simply put, somebody you are not. Women are SMARTER than most of us guys, (at least when it comes to social intelligence – and if any feminists are reading this – fuck you bitches and go read sites like this one – MADE BY BITCHES FROM BITCHES – that don’t want to admit that they’d go crazy without a strong dick.) So anyway, where was I… Yes, where you fuck up when you want to pick ‘em up. What most guys do is TRY to be cool by BRAGGING or showing off in some other NOT so subtle way. Guys – a guy that is REALLY cool does not have to PROVE anybody that he is cool – it just shows through – EVEN online on Facebook – women can “feel it.” So instead of trying to impress her with by chatting with her with some bullshit and bragging – go DO SOMETHING that will CONVEY her that you are a cool guy that’s worth her time – do something that will INDIRECTLY communicate how cool of a guy you really are. Remember – Cool guys are cool because they don’t care whether a girl thinks they’re cool or not. Got it? Cool. Like ME MEEEEEE Okay, let’s continue before I go mad.
Numero duo motherfucker:
You behave like a DESPERATE, HUNGRY, HOMELESS – DOG. Like this guy over here. Let me make something clear to you… as it says somewhere in the Holy Bible (and my book) – The one that HAS shall be given more, the one that has not – even that will be taken from him. (or something like that). The point is – Guys that are getting laid, will get EVEN MORE girls, while guys that jerk off all day to a chicks pictures on Facebook – will jerk off even more! IF they don’t read my book that is. If you behave like you are DESPERATE to get sex from her, you’ll never get it. It’s just not attractive. Period. So – what should you do instead of humping her Facebook Profile all day? GET OUT OF YOUR HOUSE and turn of your god damn computer. Do something useful with your life. Then you’ll have what to talk about. And you’ll have MORE IMPORTANT things to do than think about “that girl” – as a result, she’ll like you A LOT MORE – and you’ll be different than the other 99 guys that are checking her Facebook profile and leaving “Oh baby! you are SO HOT!” on her attention seeking photos. Don’t feed her ego. She doesn’t want that. If she did – you wouldn’t be reading this, right? Am I right or am I right? I’m right
The Big Facebook Dating mistake number 3.
Dude, let’s face it. You are BORING. And not – your jokes are not funny. You are fat, bald and short and your mother thinks you’re a homo. Your dick is small and you have confidence issues. Or maybe I’m just full of shit. The point is – don’t TRY to be funny. BE funny. FUN is the name of the game. FUN will get her to WANT to have sex with you. The more you can get her to smile, the easier you’ll connect. How do you REALLY get a girl to smile on Facebook? Simply – by being natural. Don’t FORCE or fake anything. It goes how it goes. Most guys have nothing to talk about because they do nothing in their lives, if you did something – it would be easier. If you DO a bunch of stuff – but still find it hard, here’s what you have to do. MAKE IT YOUR GOAL TO HAVE FUN. Yes – make it a GOAL of every interaction you have with girls on Facebook that it is FUN.
Okay, dude, what the fuck are you trying to say? – I can hear some of you ask.
I’ll get to the point, don’t worry. Patience is a virtue, and women like patient men – so CALM THE FUCK DOWN and wait a second. Let me explain… most of you guys (and yes, that may be YOU!) are making it your GOAL (consciously or unconsciously, I don’t know…) to PICK UP a girl OR to GET HER NUMBER or, simply, to end up having sex with you. If THAT is what you FOCUS on while you are interacting with a girl (chatting, inboxing, commenting, doesn’t matter) on Facebook – then you WILL fuck it up over 90% of the time.
Instead of focusing on “the pussy” – focus on FINDING OUT MORE about her, by joking around, talking casually etc. and having FUN. Nothing else should be your goal. Just STOP having sex in your mind. You fucking idiot – there is actually a REAL PERSON on the other end of the screen, not just a vagina. Try to get to KNOW her, without thinking about fucking her all the time.
As a result – you’ll have a lot of fun with her, she’ll start to like you, she’ll laugh, OPEN up to you (her thoughts, and later, her legs) – and then, without you EVER pushing it (so, we should meet up sometimes? etc. trying to get a date) – SHE will LEAD you to her (or your) bedroom. As long as you don’t behave like a horny monkey all the time, she’ll OPEN up to you – just FOCUS on having FUN and getting to know her, don’t TRY to seduce her. That’s what every other guy is doing. Being unique will get you to her. And keep her wanting more sex from you.
Okay – so, you are online. And SHE is online. And you are waiting, and waiting and waiting – to grow the balls to approach her. OR you are harassing and boring her to death with dumb questions that will get her to IGNORE you, BIG TIME. Either way – you’re fucking up. Either because you are doing NOTHING or because what you’re doing you’re doing it the wrong way.
It’s very important that you TAKE INITIATIVE. If you get signs from a girl that she’s interested, at least a bit – start a conversation. Don’t wait for her to fall from the SKY – she probably won’t. Yes, if SHE sends you a Friends request and initiates contact, and you like her, keep the ball rolling, help her out. If, on the other hand (which is the case with most guys) she didn’t initiate contact – you should give it a try. This leads us to a simple question -
What the hell should you talk about, and how should you start chatting with her?
It’s not so complicated. Just don’t get scared shitless. If you are worried about what you should talk about, then you either a) have no imagination b) don’t do anything with your life. You have to DO stuff (travel, work out, study, have a hobby, walk a dog, do sports, learn a language, have a passion – ANYTHING) so that you have a certain topic. Avoid talking about negative stuff. She doesn’t give a fuck about your job, or some other BORING stuff. Don’t talk about being sick, bored, feeling like crap – or ANY other negative shit that leads nowhere.
Be different by being more positive than all the other chumps hitting on her. If you can leave her with a smile after chatting with you, she might end up wanting to wake up next to you. Or at least share a bed for a while So here’s what you can chat about: talk shit. Yep – that’s all. Talk shit. If you don’t know how – practice. Don’t ask her PERSONAL questions before you talked shit a lot. Talk about her DOG, your dog, whatever. Laugh about it. See what you have in common. Don’t get into politics, religion and other complicated subjects BEFORE you sleep with her. Don’t even THINK about arguing with her – the point is to make your first chat FUN. That’s it.
Appear NON-threatening, (as in – don’t give her the impression that you are a horny fucker that’s jerking off to her pictures – which you are! I know it ). No, seriously – don’t show interest, let her do it first. And, most importantly – Once you got her smiling, and you feel like everything is going “great” – the most important thing to do is LEAVE. Yes motherfucker – LEAVE.
Every guy is STUPID. The moment a girl chick gives a chump the smallest amount of attention/positive feedback – he goes NUTS like a fucking monkey and wants to fuck her immediately. Don’t be another guy like that. Most guys stick around, and wait for her to say “BYE” or just leave Facebook’s chat. That’s just not the right way. Instead – at the BEST moment, when she thinks you’re a really cool guy etc. etc. and she wants to find out more about you. Just say “Hey (her-name), really nice talking to you, you seem cool, I have to go to (do X important thing), talk to you later ”
And that’s it. You’re out, you made a good impression, you made first contact, and now kick back and wait. She’ll start checking out your profile from time to time, and maybe contacts you again.
Facebook has grown into the best place in the world to search for hot girls. Not just search for them, but to actually get them interested in you and end up having sex, or a relationship Facebook changed dating. I don’t know whether it killed it or gave dating a rebirth – probably both. In a way it’s bad – people are “socializing” on their computer, and are maybe more awkward in real life. Millions got ADDICTED to Facebook, and basically “live” there. Their entire social life is based on “pokes” “comments”, Wall to Walls, Facebook’s Chat, and LIKE-ing. And, in a way, it’s sad. Because it’s not REAL. And using Facebook and ONLY Facebook to get a date will, eventually, lead you to getting less dates – since you’ll be a loser in real life.
Instead of getting addicted to using and searching for a date on Facebook – try to find a way to complement the two – FB and Real Life. Use Facebook as a supplement, not a main meal. A lot of guys are spending their entire day SPYING on girls on Facebook, and daydreaming about having sex with her. Then they switch to watching porn. Or they “poke” her or send her a Friends Request and pray for a reply, which most guys don’t get. There are A LOT of really hot girls on Facebook, and – to be honest – they’re doing the SAME thing as guys are. Spying on each other, and ofter searching for Mr. BigDick. Maybe YOU are that guy. Or not. Anyway – here are a few tips that will get you A LOT more sex than you are currently getting (or not getting) from all those Facebook hotties.
1 – Turn OFF Facebook and go DO something.
For a change, do something with your life, instead of being a Spectator, watching other people do stuff – go OUT and do something useful. Learn a language, go study something, join a Gym, TRAVEL, meet with a member of the opposite sex. Do something interesting. The more time you spend OFF Facebook, doing something USEFUL with your life, the more you’ll have to TALK about once you start Chatting with a hot girl on Facebook. You’ll also become a more valuable person, so it will be easier to get her attracted.
2 – Imagine you are HER
Imagine you are a HOT girl on Facebook. Guys are jerking off to your pictures, sending you Friends Requests, “poking” the shit out of you and begging you for a second of attention. You feel like THE SHIT, like a prom-queen on steroids. You get so many messages from desperate chumps that you need a secretary to reply to all of these messages. So – WHO will you notice? Which kind of guy will get you thinking “Hm… I’d like to find out more about his guy, who is he?”. THINK Like shit thinks – or at least try. Once you can look at yourself – from HER perspective, it will be a lot easier to approach her, and make a good first impression.
3 – Keep in touch with people you’ve met
When you meet someone, hang out for a night etc. If you meet a new person through mutual Friends, you’ll probably add him/her through Facebook. Try to keep in touch with people. TAKE INITIATIVE. Don’t be a fuckin’ stalker, but take some initiative. Organize things. Call some friends – AND the new person to go out together and “bring some friends if you want”. This way you’ll be connecting other people as well, and they’ll make a good impression of you. IF you know person A (new) that thinks highly of you then it is MUCH easier to send a Friends Request to his/her hot girlfriend that you want to have sex with. Especially if you KNOW that person A is in good relationships with person B. So, follow up – don’t just meet someone that’s cool and never make contact again. This is all important Because:
4 – You have to become more popular
Because, more popular means = Attractive. And attractiveness can be conveyed in many different ways and can mean many different things. When a girl looks at your profile – she usually knows within 2 minutes (if she even spends that much time on your Facebook Profile) whether she wants to have sex with you or not. She may not want to have sex immediately, but she might consider you “fuckable” or not. If you have a lot of friends – that think you are COOL, fun, hot – whatever. If people are ACTIVE on your Profile. Commenting on pictures, “Liking” your shit etc. Hot girls will NOTICE that and will treat you ACCORDINGLY. If a hot girl thinks you are an idiot – it’s usually because it SEEMS like others are treating you like an idiot (no respect).
5 – Be UNIQUE.
In a positive way. Whatever you can do to be different from the pack of morons running after her – do it! Don’t tell her everything about yourself, don’t ask her dumb questions, don’t BRAG and try to show off in any way. Be REAL. Relaxed, confident, non-threatening. If you can distinguish yourself from all the other monkeys, you’ll end up having sex with her.
6 – Preparing is half the job.
Yes – be READY. You can “jump right in there” and try to pick her up with some stupid pick up lines, or you’ll try to grab her attention in another way, but look – being prepared is much better than just “going for it”. What does being prepared mean? It means that you should OBSERVE her behavior. What is she like, what does she do, how does she think etc. etc. Find out as much as possible about her by observing her actions on Facebook, and her REACTIONS to your interaction (once you start communicating). If you know where to look, you’ll know enough about her that it will be MUCH EASIER to seduce her, and get her in love with you before you even meet up in real life.
7 – Don’t overpromise. Underpromise – then, overdeliver.
I hope this made some sense. What most fuckers do is make a girl think that they are WAY cooler than they actually are. They talk a bunch of bullshit, “pose” on pictures etc. etc. act as if they were someone that they aren’t (basically, they’re being FAKE), and then – when they meet up with the girl in real life and think that the “deal is sealed” the girl suddenly figures out that they’re just a desperate loser posing as a cool guy – and they DUMP you before they even had sex with you. Simple – BE WHO YOU ARE. Be Real. If you have nothing valuable to talk about – go, create something. Do something. Then go back to meeting girls. The best recipe for getting more sex through Facebook is by being a surprise. If you’ve never met her before in real life – you’ll make a ten times better impression if you OVERdeliver by being COOLER than she expected before she decided to go “hang out for a drink” with you. Never, ever, ever ask a girl whether she wants to go on a “date” by the way, that’s certainly not going to get her in your bed.
Are you fed up with sending girls Friends Requests only to be completely ignored or rejected? It’s hard, if not impossible, to pick up a girl on Facebook if you aren’t “Friends” yet – so getting a girl to accept your Friends Request is a logical first step in the dating process. If she doesn’t accept your request – you are OUT, before you even got in! So let’s figure out how to get her to click “Confirm”.
First – keep in mind that it is impossible to get EVERY girl to accept your Friends Request, but you can definitely improve your “response rate” if you a) send a request to the RIGHT kind of girl, that is more probable to click “Confirm” and b) make your Profile more appealing.
What’s going on in a girls mind, when she sees your request?
She’ll think “Ok, ANOTHER guy that I DO NOT KNOW and have NO mutual Friends with, that’s from ANOTHER state and has absolutely no connection with me wants to have sex with me, even though I ALREADY have a boyfriend that I’m not interested in cheating on – should I click “Confirm”? The logical answer is NO. She probably won’t. So – BEFORE you send any girl a Friends Request – try to THINK like she would think. It’s hard to do that if you don’t know anything about her, but USE the information that is freely displayed (if there is any) on her Profile to figure out how she might be thinking.
Naturally, it is a lot easier to get your request accepted if you ever met the girl in real life, or have some mutual friends. But even then – it’s possible she’ll ignore you. If you meet in real life – make a GOOD impression – and DO NOT make her feel as if giving you her number (don’t ask for it! – ask for her surname, it’s less threatening if you don’t know whether she’s interested yet). Anyway – “Will me giving this guy my number, or accepting his Friends Request transmute into him HARASSING ME, ASKING ME DUMB QUESTIONS and TRYING TO PICK ME UP – where I’ll have to politely tell him to FUCK OFF since I’m not interested?” – if you give off an impression like that, she’ll hardly even think about accepting your Friends Request – let alone sending you one herself.
So – be approachable, and don’t be an annoying fuck that is ONLY thinking about how to get her in bed.
Next – FIX your profile picture, and your basic info that everyone can see without being your friend. If you are at least A BIT interesting and have a personality (don’t try too hard though) – girls that don’t know you, and have no mutual friends, might even accept your request. If you add a nice message to it – your chances can further increase. TRUST is a big thing here, she needs to trust – that you’re not “just another sucker” that will bore her. Analyze her before you send a Friends Request, try to think like she would think – make your profile more appealing, non-threatening and relaxed – even better, be UNIQUE, capture her imagination.
If you can get a girl to FEEL “Oh, this guy seems a bit mysterious, i’d like to find out more about him – click – Confirm” then you’ve got a great start. A girl accepting your Friends Request is already a good situation to be in, NO – this does not mean she wants to have sex with you, not yet – so don’t react as if she does, or she’ll DELETE your sorry horny ass faster than you can say “Not now”
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Wanna get a date through Facebook? Who doesn’t. Getting a date through Facebook is almost easier than in real life right now. The easiest way to get a date through Facebook is with girls that you met at least once or twice in Real Life – and then, as time passes, you got to know each other a bit better via Facebook, and then just use Facebook as a medium through witch you arrange the meet up.
Even if you’ve never met her in real life before, you can still get a date with a girl through Facebook. But how? Well – first of all, NEVER call it a “DATE” – that will fuck up your chances. “Dates” aren’t official – she might call it a date, you might call it a date – when you talk about it with your friends, or she talks with her girlfriends – but NEVER tell her it’s a date. Just go to “hang out”, “grab a drink”, “go to XYZ place with some friends”. Being overly direct or sexual BEFORE having sex with her will, in most cases, completely backfire. She doesn’t want to appear “easy” like a “slut” – and you have to work your way around that. She especially doesn’t want to appear like that on Facebook – where whatever she writes can be USED as EVIDENCE that she is “a slut”. Girls are mostly afraid of other girls believing she’s an “S”.
Anyway – find a similar interest with a girl, before you try to arrange a meet up. It’s best if SHE initiates the meet up – but BEFORE you can go out on a date, she needs to be INTERESTED in you. There are 3 steps to getting a date through Facebook, and they are all inter-related. Imagine that getting a date on FB is a video game with 3 MAIN levels (and a bunch of sub-levels). You can not get to the last level (having sex after a date – that’s a 4th level actually ) without passing the lower levels first.
Level One is getting her interested. A girl that’s not interested in you – will IGNORE your attempt to “go out for a drink”. Because she’ll KNOW that you want to hit on her, and if she doesn’t want to have sex with you (or she never even thought about it) – she won’t go out with you. In that sense – level one is getting her interested. If you’ve passed that level – and you can see clear indicators of her being interested in you THEN you pass on to the next level.
Level two is more advanced, it’s like you’ve moved into a different planet. The problem is that if you’ve been beaten down in level one, you don’t have too much “live” left in your character. The smoother you pass level one – the easier everything is in level two. I’ll stop talking in metaphors to make it easier for you. If she is REALLY attracted to you (Level One) – all you’ll have to do in level Two is NOT fuck up. And you’ll easily be on a date together. But, if she’s “kind of interested” – then you have to work on her a lot more in the second level. What is the second level prior to your date and sex? It’s TRUST. If she never met you before, it won’t be EASY to get her to go out with you – IF she has no trust. Maybe you are a fucking psychotic serial killer MORON that will BORE her to DEATH and attempt to RAPE her and eat her ALIVE and then chop her into pieces! Or not. Maybe you’re just a cool guy that wants to fuck her. And that’s totally OK. Especially if she has sex on her mind too.
And if she goes on a “date” with you – she probably does have sex on her mind. “So – build trust?” – YES! BUILD IT! Get to know her – make her TALK about herself, get her to open up, make mutual friends, find a way to make her feel COMFORTABLE with you – and then, set the STAGE for the date. Make a “hook” – push an IDEA into her head about you hanging out together (and forget about the sex – think about FUN, since if FUN is your goal, the sex WILL follow). The best possible solution is to make HER suggest that you meet up – you just have to do this in a cool way, to make everything SMOOTH.
When she talks with her girlfriends (after you’ve had the hottest sex of her life!) they’ll want to know EVERYTHING that happened – from start to finish. “What did he say? What did you say? What did he say? etc.” ALL THE DETAILS. So – she’ll want to tell them a SMOOTH story, that had a flow! Her girlfriends might even MAKE her go on a date with you AND have sex. You never know.
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Facebook pick up lines don’t work. Pick up lines in general don’t work. If you believe that a “pick up line” is going to get you sex with a girl – you’re an idiot. Seriously – the ONLY time pick up lines work is when the girl is already interested in you, and even then – the effect of trying to seduce a girl with a pick up line is lame. She might just be ignoring it and going for you anyway.
What do you think most guys are doing on Facebook in order to get a date (sex)? They “hit” on a girl – and usually get rejected. Instead of hitting on her directly, try getting her interested in you first. I’ll give you a simple example – a hot girl gets hit on all the time, and by making an attempt to pick her up with some “line” – you’ll be just like everyone else. Bring her towards YOU – once she’s interesting, getting her to meet you in real life and have sex will be a piece of cake.
Instead of pick up lines – search for good conversation starters on Facebook – that can get the ball rolling and get the two of you talking and getting to know each other better. What you need is to Break The Ice so to speak. It can be a similar interest, the same taste in music, mutual friends, some sort of activity, maybe you “Like” the same thing or you’re both members of a Group – either way – FIND A CONNECTION that you can use as a “hook”. You’ll have to become better at observing, and analyzing her interests. It’s a waste of time to run after a girl that has no interest in you. Take it as a fact – NOT every girl will like you, no matter how “cool” you may be. Just the way you don’t like every girl on the planet – if you don’t like her, She can do ANYTHING and you STILL won’t like her.
The good thing is that looks are not the most important thing for girls – so you can focus on developing a more attractive lifestyle, an interesting profile, a strong identity – all that will BE your “pick up line” – that will make her more OPEN to getting to know you. 1. Break the Ice and 2. Be APPROACHABLE.
What does being approachable mean? Well – create a REASON for her, a good enough alibi for her to make contact with you. You have to give her the opportunity to communicate with you so it doesn’t appear as if she was chasing after you. A girl might like you – but you’ll never know if you don’t give her a “hook” – something that will pull her in, and get her to “like” your stuff, comment on your status or send you a message. In order to figure out where she’s interested or not – you’ll have to throw in different “hooks” and test her level of interest. If it’s positive – you know she likes you – and then you can say THE MOST STUPIDEST crap, and the worlds lamest pick up line – and she’ll still want to meet up with you and have sex.
So – let’s say you add a girl to your friends on Facebook, and she accepts your Friends Request. Great! An accepted Friends Request is a good sign. Most girls will ignore you if they never met you in real life before. But more about getting your friends request accepted later. Now that you’re friends, you might be wondering what the hell should you do next?
Send her a message. Or try to initiate contact in some other form – and observe how she reacts. But, even better – before you do anything – wait a day or two after she’s accepted your Friends Request. In case she initiates contact first – you’ve got another sign that she’s interested. Remember: Girls that don’t give a fuck about you – would NOT contact you. They would simply ignore your existence.
On the other hand, if she makes no contact – you should make a move. You have a better chance at scoring if you shoot than if you do nothing. Keep in mind though that it’s pointless to chase after a girl that isn’t interested in you. So make it your goal to figure out whether she’s interested AT ALL. Yes – theoretically you CAN change her opinion about you even if she doesn’t like you on a first impression, but it’s much easier to pick up a girl on Facebook that’s already interested in you to a certain extent. Anyway – make contact. Don’t poke her, or comment on her picture with a retarded compliment. That’s what 99% of other chumps do. And being the same as everyone else won’t help you get noticed.
A simple way to start talking to a girl on Facebook is to send her a message when she gets on Facebook’s Chat. Try with a smiley, or just a hello – see how she reacts. “Do I know you?” – “No, I guess, but you seemed interesting so I thought I’d add you ”, and let the ball start rolling. Since she’ll probably start checking out your Facebook profile now – she’ll make a decision whether you’re worth getting to know better or not. That’s why it’s important that you have your profile set up in a way that conveys positive stuff about you. You want to have a profile that will make girls WONDER. You have to make them feel like they want to find out more about you. Put in some mystery, intrigue etc. be UNIQUE in a positive way – not a clown kind of way.
So – let’s say she reacts positively and starts talking to you. What are you going to talk about? Talking with Facebook girls isn’t as complicated as it might seem right now. Here’s a simple tip: DO SOMETHING. “Do something?” Yes – do SOMETHING. Anything with your life. If you sit at home and do nothing – you’ll have nothing to talk about. The best way to have what to talk about with girls is by having something going on in your life. No – your JOB is NOT interesting (except if you’re a surfer or whatever the hell) – don’t BRAG about what you have and stop TRYING to be cool. Be real. Real works. If you have a dog – and she asks you “what have you been doing lately?”, you reply with a “I just got home from walking my dog, and now I’m chilling at home a bit, studying… you?”.
She’ll immediately ask you what kind of a dog do you have etc. and if she likes dogs to – there – you’ll have something to talk about and connect on a better level.
You’re thinking about this girl on Facebook, and you want to ask her out on a “date”. First of all – DO NOT make it look like “date”. Maybe if she’s trowing herself at you and begging for it – otherwise, just make it “a drink”, or “let’s hang out at XYZ place”. But never mention a date. Don’t show too much interest in her. Some guys are really dumb – they tell a girl they love her before they even got close to having sex with her. Don’t be another desperate loser. It’s not attractive, and it won’t get you laid.
So – how do you ask her out? If you don’t want to get ignored or rejected – then listen up. Instead of ASKING her to go out with you, figure her out better. Find out more about her, get in touch through Facebook. Chat for some time – and get her interested in you. Once you see REAL clues and signals that she wants to suck your dick – make a move. Look for CLUES of interest. If she’s interested in getting to know you in real life – she’ll give you signals. So learn how to identify these signals.
Does she ask you a lot of questions? Does she poke you, like your shit, comment on your photo’s? Does she initiate chatting/inboxing even after a few days of no-contact? If you answered with a “yes” to any of these questions – you’ve got your shit handled. If you answered with a “kind of”, “no” or a “maybe” – then you still have to work on attracting her. Don’t ask her out if you did not attract her/got her interested first – or you’ll get REJECTED 95% sure. Look – you CAN “attack” 50 girls to go out with you – and some will, maybe. But it’s a numbers game. Why get rejected 500 times in order to get one date? Are you that desperate. Shoot for QUALITY over quantity – so that after some time girls will FIGHT for YOU – and CHASE after YOU, and ask YOU out on a DATE. It’s possible – but you have to work on yourself.
Let’s say that she gave you all the clues that she’s interested in meeting up with you (potentially having sex) – what do you do now? Now’s the time to ask her out. But – instead, try turning the tables. Try suggesting a meet up – and then observe how she reacts. Observing is KEY. If you get a good reaction – you KNOW that she’s really interested in you. This is very important – since then you’ll know how to behave and what your position is once you go out on that “date”. Instead of just going and sitting in Starbucks – (that’s a good idea, but there are better ones) – go DO SOMETHING together. Whatever. Play pool, watch a movie, do some sort of activity together.
Anyway – when you start chatting/messaging, tell her about something that you were thinking about doing (watching a basketball match). If she responds enthusiastically – tell her something like “Hey, you seem really cool, it would be fun to get to know you for real, we should hang out some day if you want to for a drink/XYZ activity” – it’s better if you send her this as a message in her inbox. If she responds something like “yeah, you seem really cool too, it would be great to get to know you too”.
Then getting her number and meeting up will be completely natural – if you already know that she’s interested in meeting up with you. Just don’t be a boring monkey like most idiots out there. If you want to learn more about Facebook Sex, sign up for my Weekly Facebook Sex and Dating Tips by clicking here. Or read my guide. Or go jerk off for the rest of your life.